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Discussion in 'Mental Health Disorders' started by Spikey, Feb 17, 2009.

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  1. Spikey

    Spikey Senior Member

    I can't cope with being so huge anymore, it's disgusting, I'm trying, I'm really trying to see what everyone else supposidly sees, that I'm not really fat, but I am, it tells me so, got to be steely not weak.
  2. Hazel

    Hazel SF & Antiquitie's Friend Staff Alumni

    Good god woman you are beautiful, I would never have thought of you as fat!

    If I was anywhere near your size I would be delighted but obviously you are not happy with your weight so all I can say is eat a low fat diet, take some exercise, learn to love yourself and don't overdo the dieting.
    Sounds easy but is far from it as I well know.

    :hug: Hazel xx
  3. Spikey

    Spikey Senior Member

    Thanks Hazel, that means a lot :hug: :wub:
  4. BlueWind

    BlueWind Well-Known Member

    HA! you fat???...wt*???... you are so pretty & so well proportioned...if i was a young guy, i'd ask you out without giving it a second thought!:wub::wink:...but you being my 'adopted' daughter, i'll have to keep my shotgun handy to prevent your tooooooo many admirers from climbing thru' the windows or knocking down the doors !!!:tongue::biggrin::rose: xx
  5. resistance

    resistance Staff Alumni

    Honey you are SO not fat, you are stunning! :yes: I know you find it hard to believe, one day I truly hope you will believe us and look in the mirror and accept and like the person you are. Beautiful, inside and out. :hug: x
  6. Zurkhardo

    Zurkhardo Well-Known Member

    I believe the consensus says otherwise mam :p

    How much do you weight? I imagine you're not as fat as you think!
  7. *dilligaf*

    *dilligaf* Staff Alumni

    Ahh shh woman you are NOT fat. Love ya :hug:
  8. Spikey

    Spikey Senior Member

    :hug: Love you all :hug:
  9. famous.last.words

    famous.last.words Forum Buddy

    You are so beautiful. I just wish you could see what we all see. I know its hard, sweety, I'm always here for you :hug:
  10. BlueWind

    BlueWind Well-Known Member

    Change your mirror, it's a liar !!! :hug:
  11. wheresmysheep

    wheresmysheep Staff Alumni

    fat.... woman :mad: i'll hit you

    now as much as we all tell you we think your mad, and we do, it wont change what you think, so in saying that i can only say, dont do the starvation route. eat healthily, breakfasy luch dinner, exercise, and try to start thinking possitively about yourself.
    the best "trick" i heard to help you think differnet is to look at yourself in teh mirror once everyday and say "i love me" you may and will feel stupid for the first while, but it does eventually start to have an effect.
    your not fat huni
  12. Spikey

    Spikey Senior Member

    I am. I hate myself.
  13. Spikey

    Spikey Senior Member

    :Sad: I really feel it today.
  14. Puppy

    Puppy Well-Known Member

    :hug: I know how you feel. Sometimes I'll look in the mirror, see my ribs and wonder why I think I'm fat. I mean, if I can see my ribs, doesn't that mean I'm not fat? :confused:

    People say I'm really skinny, and my family have talked about my weight to me and behind my back. I think at times they've been worried about my weight?

    But everyone in your thread says you're not fat, so try your hardest to believe them! I know it's hard though :hug:
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