I'm wondering what is it with father's and their sons, and if anyone else can relate.
Many fathers take the view with their sons I think that they have a plan for them when they get older, and if that son doesn't do his fathers wishes, then he disowns him. This is a view my father has taken with me and I'm wondering what the hell kind of parenting is that?!
Oh what? So I didn't become your personal slave and decided to have my own thoughts and life, and now you're going to hold it against me for the rest of my life? First of all, it's not your choice, and second is completely selfish and rude to think that way. One of my father's gripes with me is I believe he holds it against me for not giving him grandchildren. Well sorry, I've been a little busy with this suicide/depression thing, you know, going through hell with attempts and all sorts of shit like that, but what the fuck would you care? He is not a bad man overall and has done much good in his life, but he doesn't take suicide/depression and the people that deal seriously at all and that majorly pisses me off. He'll say some stupid bullshit comment like, "I don't know, I think I had it pretty tough back in 1980" referring to the recession with Reagan in the '80s. "Oh, you're comparing A FUCKING JOB SITUATION TO SUICIDE???" What a fucking asshole. I've dealt with tough job situations, and I've dealt with suicide. But, ya I'd have to say the ol' suicide problem is probably about 1000 times worse than not finding a job, ok?! Totally out of touch with empathy or priorities, but that's my dad.
So, our relationship sucks, my dad and his dad never got along, my grandpa's dad used to like to get drunk and throw him down the stairs. My grandpa on my mom's side of the family never got along with his sons either. This actually made me take the view when I was younger that I vowed never to have a son, just so I wouldn't even have the opportunity to do to them what you did to me. I mean, why have children if you're just going to be a selfish ass to them? And you'd think if your father sucked, than maybe you wouldn't, but what do I know.
Many fathers take the view with their sons I think that they have a plan for them when they get older, and if that son doesn't do his fathers wishes, then he disowns him. This is a view my father has taken with me and I'm wondering what the hell kind of parenting is that?!
Oh what? So I didn't become your personal slave and decided to have my own thoughts and life, and now you're going to hold it against me for the rest of my life? First of all, it's not your choice, and second is completely selfish and rude to think that way. One of my father's gripes with me is I believe he holds it against me for not giving him grandchildren. Well sorry, I've been a little busy with this suicide/depression thing, you know, going through hell with attempts and all sorts of shit like that, but what the fuck would you care? He is not a bad man overall and has done much good in his life, but he doesn't take suicide/depression and the people that deal seriously at all and that majorly pisses me off. He'll say some stupid bullshit comment like, "I don't know, I think I had it pretty tough back in 1980" referring to the recession with Reagan in the '80s. "Oh, you're comparing A FUCKING JOB SITUATION TO SUICIDE???" What a fucking asshole. I've dealt with tough job situations, and I've dealt with suicide. But, ya I'd have to say the ol' suicide problem is probably about 1000 times worse than not finding a job, ok?! Totally out of touch with empathy or priorities, but that's my dad.
So, our relationship sucks, my dad and his dad never got along, my grandpa's dad used to like to get drunk and throw him down the stairs. My grandpa on my mom's side of the family never got along with his sons either. This actually made me take the view when I was younger that I vowed never to have a son, just so I wouldn't even have the opportunity to do to them what you did to me. I mean, why have children if you're just going to be a selfish ass to them? And you'd think if your father sucked, than maybe you wouldn't, but what do I know.