I feel as though I have an, oftentimes crippling, fear of people in general because I've been hurt so much.
This fear becomes so hard to tolerate that at some point it turns into hate. Hate for people in general. It's exhausting and I don't like the person that my suffering is turning me into. I don't want to be a hateful, bad person. But it's hard to get back up when you've been beaten down so much.
Do you know what I mean? What to do?
I believe that is completely understandable, and perfectly reasonable, for you to feel this way. . . given what you've just gone through (as well as prior to/growing up - in that environment). What you really could use, or need, is some more positive experiences with positive people who will then provide you with a positive influence, to help garner & generate that trust in folk that is now so fading; or non-existent. This is where talk therapy, as I am sure you're aware, would be of some helpful / or good use!
Though I know that it is not that effortless or easy/feasible a task for you to have access to, or manage right now/at this moment. You're kind of sitting with a very Unbalanced, equation right now - with regards how you view humans (& in terms of the issues with trust). That said, it is totally to be warranted, or expected with your history: both present & past. It doesn't have to be that way going forward, or into the future, though... That is the good news! :^) Try not to be so hard on yourself, in regards not liking these changes you're experiencing. For they are simply a function of the vast trauma & psychological torture for which you've been put through. And so, please do what you can to give yourself a break, take a deep breathe, and try to relax some of that stress away. It is normal and human for you to be in the position you're in. Hopefully, once you get rolling with school again, your studies can foster or be a catalyst to embarking on a path to finding and making more meaningful & thus, or therefore positive / healthy influences on you, and your life! It can be done, just a little hard to see right now with your skewed view. Which was done onto you, by others~ mrb.