Fears & sympathy

[lostcat95]

I have this guy I am seeing and I keep telling him "I WANT TO BE ALONE". I need to be alone and pull my life together and I can't do that while concentrating on this relationship! I know that he is with me NOW because he fears me hurting myself????? He tells me he loves me but how can you love someone u think is crazy! How can I break it off for good with this guy.

 

[twilightki]

He doesn't think you're crazy, he just cares about you. He doesn't want to see you in pain. If you need to be alone, sit down with him and tell him that you will not hurt yourself, you just need time to straighten out your life, and having a relationship at the moment is making it more difficult. If he really loves you, he will wait and respect your need for space.

 

[lostcat95]

I have tried this and he won't listen

 

[lostcat95]

I think the problem is me...