Coming to these forums and reading about all this plight it's easy to become overwhelmed. I can sympathise with what people are writing but when I try to type a response I just sort of freeze up. How can I offer any advice when I don't even know anything about them? I feel like I'm pretentious for offering advice and condescending if I type something generic. There are so many people who are suffering and nobodys feelings are any more important than the other, still there will always be those who don't get any attention because they aren't good enough at expressing themselves. Anyone else get these sorts of feelings? I think this is a great place but it's also very demanding, especially when most of the members here have issues themselves. I mean if I can't even help myself, how could I help others?