So I just recently got my first girlfriend. We've been dating for a few weeks.
We met online through a mutual acquaintance, and I asked her out after a day or 2 of chatting. On our very first date she kept telling me how hard she was falling for me and telling me how *hot**intelligent* and *charming* I am. We actually made out for over an hour on the first date. She even told me I was an amazing kisser(i'd only ever kissed 1 girl before and it wasn't like THIS LOL)
After the first date we stayed in contact obviously and established what would be considered a good relationship. The other day she told me she was falling in love with me.
Now, I've never been in a relationship before(i'm 21), and NEVER been told by a girl that I was "hot", or "charming" or any of the things she says to me almost constantly. I simply have never been treated this way by the opposite sex before, and to have a girl tell me shes FALLING IN LOVE with me after a few weeks of knowing eachother is simply overwhelming, to say the least. I mean I thought that girls HATED me.
This has gotten me feeling really out of place, really really depressed, and really confused. I guess I should feel happy about it right? Well I just don't at all, and I don't know why.
I also feel like I am deceiving her in a way because she does not know how mentally and emotionally screwed up I really am.
ugh can anyone relate or anything to this?
We met online through a mutual acquaintance, and I asked her out after a day or 2 of chatting. On our very first date she kept telling me how hard she was falling for me and telling me how *hot**intelligent* and *charming* I am. We actually made out for over an hour on the first date. She even told me I was an amazing kisser(i'd only ever kissed 1 girl before and it wasn't like THIS LOL)
After the first date we stayed in contact obviously and established what would be considered a good relationship. The other day she told me she was falling in love with me.
Now, I've never been in a relationship before(i'm 21), and NEVER been told by a girl that I was "hot", or "charming" or any of the things she says to me almost constantly. I simply have never been treated this way by the opposite sex before, and to have a girl tell me shes FALLING IN LOVE with me after a few weeks of knowing eachother is simply overwhelming, to say the least. I mean I thought that girls HATED me.
This has gotten me feeling really out of place, really really depressed, and really confused. I guess I should feel happy about it right? Well I just don't at all, and I don't know why.
I also feel like I am deceiving her in a way because she does not know how mentally and emotionally screwed up I really am.
ugh can anyone relate or anything to this?