I've been with the same guy for a year and a half now, and i've talked to him about my issues with depression. In the first few months, I had a panic attack and he came running over to come and help me calm down. He told me if i ever needed help that i shoudl call him and talk it out; I had thought that this would work out and he'd really be willing to support me. I get mostly better, no more urges to cut, just a few slumps once a month. Then within the last few weeks i'm more miserable than i've been in a really long time. I tried to text him asking if we can talk, I told him i needed help and he responded 'i can't fix you, you need psychiatric help' I told him that i didnt' need to be fixed i needed support and comfort and his response was just "fine." it's such crap! Any time something goes wrong for him, i pay attention to him, text and talk to him all the time to make him feel better, but if I need help it's a goddamn chore. When I call him out on it, he responded "i dont' know what to say" I mean Jesus I'm telling you how alone i feel and you cant' come up with anything to say?! That's bullshit. text me ONCE saying 'hey how are you doing?" "hey, what's up?" or just Hey, I would have been satisfied. I got tired of trying and decided to just not talk to him for a few days. I *Finally* get a text from him and it just says "is this how you show me you want to talk to me?" AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH I TRIED, I MOTHERFUCKING TRIED. I TRIED OVER AND OVER AND OVER AGAIN AND YOU DIDN'T RESPOND. THIS IS WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU DONT' RESPOND TO MESSAGES, I STOP TRYING.