Moving back in with my parents has been the worst decision i've ever made. my fiance and i live with them and he has turned into such an angry person. he hates my parents because they are huge alcoholics. they yell at us in the middle of night. and my sister doesn't live here but she recently got kicked out of her apartment so all of her 8 CATS have came here and put into the basement. yesterday my fiance threw the tv remote numerous times and made many holes in the wall. he was angry that my parents just let my sister do whatever she wants. but he seems to take it all out on me. when i try to calmly talk to him, it seems to make him worse. the only way he feels better is if he sleeps it off or we don't talk for hours. but im scared he is going to hurt me one time. and even when he feels better...we never get a chance to talk about it all. he has broken so many cell phones over the past few years just because he is mad. we have been together for 5 years but i don't know what else i should do. ive tried different methods of dealing with it. talking, ignoring it, giving him space, trying to get another person involved to talk to him. but nothing seems to work. im so stressed and i have extremely low self esteem. most of the time, i feel like this is all my fault. im so depressed.