I got a few friends including myself who are entering this sort of "playful, dating sexual arena" but never really dealt with it before. I personally don't know what to do should a situation ever "happen" and I would have to make a decision to push away and potentially hurting someone or myself. I heard you should always do it with someone you care about, but don't people care about each other when they are in a relationship then sometimes it eventually turns out bad and they break up? How can you tell if you can trust somebody? I also heard people just wanted to see what it was like? Oh if anyone can just have their input or insight into the subject, I can sure help a lot of friends including myself understand this.