following my story

Discussion in 'Domestic Abuse' started by Izziebabystar, Nov 18, 2012.

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  1. Izziebabystar

    Izziebabystar Well-Known Member

    i am begining to think that the reason my last two relationships have beet abusive is because of me and my actions. i had an argument with my brother and he grabbed my arm so i slapped him. its got me thinking that i am doing things to make them do what they hve done to me :/
     
  2. Sadeyes

    Sadeyes Staff Alumni

    Often times, when we have been abused, we do things to revictimize ourselves...maybe this is something to look into...also, our mood and way of being in the world is affected by these experiences...but I also think it is important to forgive ourselves when we act this way
     
  3. total eclipse

    total eclipse SF Friend Staff Alumni

    You or noone deserves to be abused hun these people are not people if they can abuse you and your daughter really who saw the abuse. You are not at fault hun it is them that are the monsters. Hugs to you
     
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