that come here and then bitch and complain about this site remember this: the other members here are hurting too. we all come here first looking for help, support and understanding, secondly to return the same if we are able. just because you dont have 30 written replies to your post doesnt mean others dont care. Look at how many took the time to read your thread. You more than likely came here because you didnt have anyone else in RL to listen. To talk to. Well everyone of those members that read your post has now listened. If nothing else you can be comforted in knowning now you have been heard. So please take the time to really undertand what SF is all about. People caring and listening and giving you a place to have a voice. People that really arent too much different than yourself with pains and torment in life. People that are all hurting for one reason or another. That those that help do so when they can. No one reason is more or less important than the other. So quit bitchin and start seeing the help that is being offered. Take it or leave (it).