Is it just me or has SF lost its ethos? SF - A support forum for people in crisis Im thinking it should read something like: SF - A dating site for the mentally ill I look around and thats all i see, am i the only one? When did it come to this? All i see is people in crisis and their posts going unanswered while everyone else gets their rocks off or tries too through visitors messages or private messages. Then you have people who divert all attention onto themselves detracting all the attention away from all the people who actually need it. Then there are some people who just go out go their way to fuck people up just because they can. Support is all well and good but its a two-way thing.