sooo, basically, since the friday before thanksgiving i've had some pregnancy paranoia (not unprotected, but you know how paranoia can be). well, finally i can breathe since i know i'm not pregnant. but now i'm cramping like a mofo. f men. i'm sure the guy hasn't been freaking out for 2 weeks like i've been, and men dont have to deal with the monthly pain in the ass that we do. i know, they don't get they joys of having the child grow in them. but they get paid more for the same work, they don't have to wear makeup or high heels, they get more respect, and of course, the aforementioned monthly visitor. it's bullshit.