I have a theoretical question for all of you . A former employer of mine had his house burn down and he asked me to help him out. I told him him no. Here is why-- He threatened to fire me from a job several years ago because he thought I wasn't doing a good job. I was doing anything wrong just not doing the job he thought I should be doing. I ended up leaving for another position a few weeks later. Do you think I was wrong? This is just one absolute boundary I have. I do not have anything to do with people who threaten my livelyhood or ever take my livelyhood away.