Freaking out

Discussion in 'Help Me! I Need to Talk to Someone.' started by Wastingecho, Jan 24, 2011.

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  1. Wastingecho

    Wastingecho Well-Known Member

    my manager scheduled a status meeting this morning

    i have to meet with him and HR this afternoon, presumably to discuss my performance

    i'm freaking out - tried listening to music but that made it worse - have things that could numb the anxiety but if i start taking them i'm pretty sure i won't stop

    feels like the hammer is going to come down and i don't know if i can stop it
  2. total eclipse

    total eclipse SF Friend Staff Alumni

    I hope they will work things out that will help you stay please let us know how it goes okay hugs
  3. jxdama

    jxdama Staff Member Safety & Support

    it might be good news.
  4. Wastingecho

    Wastingecho Well-Known Member

    it was weird

    it was like our regular one-on-one status meetings except HR was there

    so now i'm confused as well as freaked

    i have no clue what's going on only that it's stressing me out like crazy
  5. total eclipse

    total eclipse SF Friend Staff Alumni

    why don't you ask why human relations was there don't sit around wondering ask boss what the reasoning was okay
  6. kobie76

    kobie76 Well-Known Member

    This happened with me several times when I was working last. Probably just a change to their procedure and most likely nothing to worry about. Try not to let it stress you out.

    Did they ask you if you wanted someone there for you i.e union rep or a friend?
  7. Fitzy

    Fitzy Well-Known Member

    Maybe also ask if they have a written procedure?
  8. XXXXX

    XXXXX Antiquities Friend

    I woudn't over assume that anyone else knew why HR was there. including HR :laugh:
  9. Ravenwing

    Ravenwing Well-Known Member

    Are you feeling any better? Hopefully you will find out what was going on. :hug:
  10. Wastingecho

    Wastingecho Well-Known Member

    no idea and afraid to ask
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