I have a good friend who is going through some things and is in a lot of pain. He blames himself for things that happened a long time ago and thinks that god doesnt love him for it. He said he doesn't want to die, but living with pain is too unbearable. He really wants help but is afraid to seek it cause he thinks he'll be locked away or something. It really hurts me to see him like this. What should I tell him to do? What should I do?