Discussion in 'Rants, Musings and Ideas' started by Cath, Oct 5, 2008.

  1. Cath

    Cath Staff Alumni

    Just realised i've got no friends. No one I can trust or talk to. All I get is people faking it, pretending they are friends when all they want is someone to be there for them.
    No one realises how much it hurts, but why would anyone care i'm just a game, big joke to everyone :blub:
  2. PeaceBlueFire

    PeaceBlueFire Well-Known Member

    I'm really sorry you have no one to confide in who is reliable with what you are sharing with them. I know how much it stings to have people repeatedly betray you and use you. I want you to know that I care and I don't think you or anyone else is a game or a joke. I'm here to listen if you ever want to talk. I promise not to share my story or give any advice unless asked. Peace! :) P.S. YOU ARE LOVED!!!!!
  3. Anju

    Anju Well-Known Member

    You're not a big joke :hug: I'm sorry you feel that you're alone :sad: maybe people don't realise you feel they take from you and give nothing back? It does hurt though, it hurts so bad to feel you have no one to talk to:unsure: If it helps, I'm here if you want a friend :) PM if you'd like to chat okay?
  4. Abacus21

    Abacus21 Staff Alumni

    Aww Cath hun :hug:

    You rock :) . You're great and although you're a bit quiet - it's not a problem! Everyone's different and differences are what make us all unique :)

    You've got friends - I am one, for one! :hug:
  5. Hazibell

    Hazibell Well-Known Member

    Theres always someone that cares. Honestly. Even if its just us here :)
    Noones life is ever a joke. There is always some reason we're here.
    Talk to us m'dear.
  6. BioHomocide

    BioHomocide Well-Known Member

    I know how it feels. :hug:
    I'm sorry this is happening to you.
  7. nagisa

    nagisa Staff Alumni

    Cath :hug:

    I'm your friend, hun, as well as your loving wifey :wub:

    I'm here whenever you need someone to talk to. :hug:
  8. gentlelady

    gentlelady Staff Alumni

    Cath you are cared for by people here at the forum. I am sure there are those in RL as well. Your depression is telling you otherwise. Don't listen to it. :hug:
  9. Cath

    Cath Staff Alumni

    Thankyou :grouphug:
  10. kenny

    kenny Well-Known Member

    Cath, am always there if you need someone to talk to. if you're ever not 'ok' all you have to do is say and I'm more than happy to listen.

  11. patacake

    patacake Well-Known Member

    im defo a friend of urs cath and so is dawn too :hug:
  12. tintin

    tintin Guest

    i feel the exact same Cath.
    I'm here for you hun :hug:
  13. wastedmylife

    wastedmylife Well-Known Member

    my only friend is my therapist and I dread the day when she will either want to stop seeing me out of her own will or when her internship is up which will probably happen sometime before May
  14. Cath

    Cath Staff Alumni

    Apparently now i've got to get over myself. I'm not allowed to be depressed, not allowed to talk about how I feel, it has to be about the other person all the time :sad:
  15. Spikey

    Spikey Senior Member

    What a load of bollocks Cathy. You tell me who said that and I'll bounce my fist all over their face :mad:.
    It should be about you.
    Fuck everyone else. Concentrate on you for a bit.
    You know where I am if you need me.
    Melleh <3
  16. Spearmint

    Spearmint Well-Known Member

    Damn, who the hell said that? I've never seen you talking about yourself. Just ignore 'em, they aren't worth your time. Like Mel said, focus on yourself for a while. My PM box is open if you need anything. :hug::wave:
  17. HappyAZaClaM

    HappyAZaClaM Guest

    I don't know you yet. but anyone with all those cute puppy dogs
    for an avatar gotta be alright in my book :)
  18. I relate, and it's an excruciating feeling. I just don't know what to do about it.