i got this friend, lets call him ''jerk''. anyway ive been friends with jerk for a while, his not a good friend but his alot of fun to hang with plus we play guitar together. anyway im also good friends with his girlfriend and have known her for a while too. she recently started going out with jerk and they've had alot of fun together. but i had a long talk with her after my falling down, i learnt that she is worried about what jerk thinks of their relationship, she wants someone to love and care for her and give that in return but jerk doesnt want that kinda relationship. i talk to jerk for her and he said he'll let her know how he really feels, but he hasnt done it yet, i doubt he will. should i tell her that jerk doesnt want a relationship and end her pain of not knowing? or let jerk keep useing her for sex.