getting back with a ex who hates me

Discussion in 'Family, Friends and Relationships' started by Lestat, Jan 5, 2008.

  1. Lestat

    Lestat Well-Known Member

    Hi, i have just split up with my girlfriend who we will call "Wendy" for now. My EX we will call "Sam".

    When i was with Sam i cheated on her with her best friend who was Wendy. I had 2 children with Sam but i believed our relationship was ending as she was getting violent and getting mad very easy.

    It took time but we did Finnish and I ended up with Wendy. Sam hated Wendy for this as you would expect and she also hated me.

    Me and Wendy are about to split up and I am going to see if i can get back with Sam, i don't know if i can but i think i may have a chance if i play my cards right...

    Do you think i should? Do you think I am just being a jerk? Do you think i should go die for my past sins? Do you think i should die a single life?
  2. How likely do you suppose it is that "Sam" might take you back?
  3. Lestat

    Lestat Well-Known Member

    I really wish i knew. I talked to her and she acts like there is no chance but i know her and think there might be. We have 2 children and I know if i did the right things i could get in her good books which id love.
  4. Esmeralda

    Esmeralda Well-Known Member

    I think you should take a break from women for awhile and put the kids first. Nowhere did you say that you love Wendy, so why get back with her? It will only end up hurting her and the children when you cheat again.
  5. Lestat

    Lestat Well-Known Member

    I dont think i ever stopped really loving her, when i talk to her i do feel love for her.... I agree that I need to do whats best for my kids... your right.

    I dont think i can be on my own though, ive not been on my own for so long that I cant cope.... I know i sound so lame but i need someone.