getting really down *trigger*

Discussion in 'Rants, Musings and Ideas' started by troubledprincess, Jan 22, 2009.

  1. troubledprincess

    troubledprincess Well-Known Member

    hey
    im gettin so down all im thinking about is my little girl she would have been 10 on the 14th of feb but she died 3 mins after she was born i was only 14 at the time but it still hurts me till this day my family still dont know about her till this day and always have ago at me coz i get so uset but how can i tell them now what happened they would hate me for life
     
  2. Anime-Zodiac

    Anime-Zodiac Well-Known Member

    If you did tell them, then you could tell a member of family who you trust the most and then take it from there. But only go through with telling your family or a member of family if your very sure.
     
  3. troubledprincess

    troubledprincess Well-Known Member

    my family would not understand they would have ago at me and would what to know what happened to her and where she was and i would not be able to tell them the truth
     
  4. *dilligaf*

    *dilligaf* Staff Alumni

    :hug: sarah, im sorry :hug:
     
  5. Anime-Zodiac

    Anime-Zodiac Well-Known Member

    Then perhaps it's best they don't know the truth since they wouldn't be able to understand.
     
  6. kenny

    kenny Well-Known Member

    Hi

    I think it would be a good idea to try to speak to a counsellor, preferrably one who specialises in bereavement. You've not had the opportunity to grieve outwardly about this, so it's no surprise that you're finding this difficult.

    First thing you have to do is to confide in your GP if you can.
    I don't have PM, but if you want to talk about this on a one to one, my msn is in my profile.

    My best wishes
    Kenny
     
  7. troubledprincess

    troubledprincess Well-Known Member

    all i wanna do is cry i know i have my son but i just can stop thinking what would my life be like now with her in it. what if i had told the doctor that i was pergant maybe she would still be here