Hello people, I often say that i have given up on getting a girlfriend. I explain that i am too solitary, lack patience etc. The real reason is that i am bad in bed so i avoid getting intimate with any women. I have a small penis and don't last long. I often feel a huge need for affection and love, i think the fact that i have not given up might hurt me. I know that many women don't care about sex but it's a small minority. I don't want to be ridiculed and rejected 50 times before i find one, i don't have this strenght in me. I'm not even sure what i hope for, basically some kind of miracle like making a friend who would tell me randomly that she doesn't like sex or wait until i am old enough that sex is'nt important anymore. Sometimes i think: Give up damn idiot you just hurt yourself with your ridiculous dreams. Accept yourself and focus on being happy the way you are. I have great friends and familly, a job i love and that pay well etc. I could be relatively happy. You see my dilemma?