He breaks up with me, says we can still be friends. I say: This will probably result in me deleting your number and not talking to you for at least a year. He says: I know where you live, better not delete it, I'll still be your friend. I say:I don't want to have to face you as a friend. It's an embarrassing reminder that I did, in fact, go crazy and drive you away. I really don't want to get caught up in that failure right now. I just want to get another job, focus on moving out, and forget you exist in the meantime. He says: Grow the fuck up. Stop ignoring things. It's an opportunity to grow, be a better person, and learn from mistakes as opposed to dropping someone completely. Who are you to tell me breaking up and being "friends" with me is an opportunity to grow? And after breaking up with me why do you even think I'll trust you to be my friend? How do you not see the betrayal in this? I'm glad you're peachy keen keeping me as some friend or fuck buddy but god just screw off. He says: you just did a 180, why are you upset? Why am I upset? You date me, you comfort me, you tell me you love me, and now you just want to be friends. ugh asdfghjkl; why am I upset asdfghjkljhjgfdf god I want to hit him.