do you all not listen to be cos im a newbie? i come in chat and try to talk ... and everything is brushed under the carpet and moved on! i do a new thread and no1 replies, just proving to me that everything i think and feel was right! of all the people that i thought would understand ... was you lot! GRRR is it something i am doing wrong? is it my name? is it the way i look? what is ittttttttttttttt?