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Ideas & Opinions Gut feeling is screaming this is wrong

Accio

Well-Known Member
#1
I've been desperate to move out of my apartment ever since I moved in, almost 2 years ago.

I finally have an exchange offer. I should be thrilled. This is what I've been desperate for for almost 2 years.

Except, I keep getting this horrible gut feeling that this is a bad idea and I have no idea why.

I'm starting to hope that a problem arises where I don't exchange with this person.
 
#2
I'm sorry. Do you normally suffer with anxiety? Sometimes I get similar feelings where I worry about change, even if they change seems good, and I can't pinpoint the reason why I am worrying. Do you think you could try and rationalize the situation - sometimes I like to go through the change step by step in my head. I hope you can feel a bit better soon. Sending hugs *sadhug.
 

Accio

Well-Known Member
#4
I do suffer from anxiety. I'm not sure but I may be worried about the location that I will be moving to.

For now, I have to view their properly and they view mine and decide if we still want to swap.
 

Dark111

SF Supporter
#5
There's uncertainty about where you're going so no wonder you're feeling anxious about it. The place you want to leave, were you very unhappy there?
 

Auri

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Safety & Support
SF Supporter
#6
You can only make the best out of the decision you took, and not have any regrets. Generally we regret things we didn't do rather than the decisions we took.

I get being anxious, but change doesn't have to be bad. Don't look back. If there are no problems, so let's not create any. ;)
 

Accio

Well-Known Member
#7
I've hated living in my current apartment since I moved in almost 2 years ago. The apartment itself is lovely but the neighbours are terrible and the reason I've been wanting to move.
 
#8
Just like your apartment, there may be something terrible about their's that makes them want to move.

I would say either bail out or proceed with caution.
 

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