I think this thread is in the right place... I've been seeing a guy for a while now and he's just told me he's married. I'm already emotionally invested and I know it's really bad of me to want to continue the relationship but I can't help myself from wanting to keep seeing him. He has said he's not told his wife and he doesn't intend to, and would like to keep seeing me. He is exactly what I was hoping to find, he's perfect for me, except he's married. This is really hard for me, because I know it would hurt his wife if she found out, and morally, obviously, it's wrong. But I don't know what to do. I'm finding it difficult to come up with reasons which out-weigh the good things about our relationship. On the one hand I don't want to hurt anybody, but I get so much out of our relationship, I don't want to go back to nothing and feel the way I did before. I know that's selfish. Please help, I don't know what to do!