Over the last few (6) years or so I've been having issues with keeping guy friends. I can almost always figure out the reason, and it's sad. Lately the only guys that have attempted or became my friend has done so purely to get close to me in hopes I'll have sex with them. As soon as I say no or something along those lines and go back to my home, I won't hear from this "friend" anymore. It's been happening a lot lately with almost every guy I meet, and it really hurts. I spend time getting to know these people and they seem legitimately interested in me too, until they find out I have no plan to have sex with them. I don't know if I'm putting off a vibe or something, but it's pretty obvious that I'm in a relationship with someone, I'm engaged to him, ring on my finger and everything. It just really hurts to know that some people will pretend to get to know you just to try to get in your pants. Then, if you don't have sex with them you've lost someone you thought was really your friend. I feel used and I'm a lot more hesitant with letting people get to know me these days, because I'm afraid they have a hidden agenda and I'll get hurt again.