had a long talk with my wife

Discussion in 'Suicidal Thoughts and Feelings' started by tenholehweels, Jul 15, 2011.

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  1. tenholehweels

    tenholehweels Well-Known Member

    today.

    first time we actually sat down and had a mature discussion
    instead of me crying and her avoiding the conversation.

    she's still divorcing me but she said that she really didn't want
    me to die,and that she didn't hate me.

    she said it was a way to protect herself from feeling like she
    had to stay with me.

    first time she showed me any feelings, it doesn't make it any
    better still not having her but knowing she thinks my life is
    worth saving maybe i do to.

    i'm not saying that i'm going to be ok, it just gives me some
    little bit of life.
     
  2. Terry

    Terry Antiquities Friend Staff Alumni

    Am glad you were able to talk :smile:
    Now you can concentrate on getting you right.
    You will grieve for the loss of your marriage, but grieving is part of the healing process.
    If you need an ear, please feel free to pm me.
     
  3. WildCherry

    WildCherry Staff Member ADMIN

    *agrees with Terry* Your life is worth something, and you shouldn't die. I know it hurts, but you can rebuild. Here if you want to talk.
     
  4. Kassy

    Kassy Well-Known Member

    It is always good to hear about hope. Thanks.
     
  5. IV2010

    IV2010 Well-Known Member

    Ten I'm so pleased to hear that she said that and it's given you some hope
    agree with Terry also about the grieving of the marriage..
    *hug*
     
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