Hard few days

Discussion in 'Grief and Bereavement' started by *dilligaf*, Mar 13, 2008.

  1. *dilligaf*

    *dilligaf* Staff Alumni

    I've got a hard few days coming up.

    Tomorrow is the 9 month anniversary of my Nan's death.
    Saturday I am having a party for my birthday.
    Sunday is my 21st birthday. My first birthday without my Nan.
    Monday is the first St. Patrick's Day without her.

    Too much is happening at once :sad:
     
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  3. Bob26003

    Bob26003 Well-Known Member

    You must have been very close to her sam :sorry:

    She must have been very special.

    :hug:
     
  4. *dilligaf*

    *dilligaf* Staff Alumni

    She was very very very very special :yes:

    I loved her so much. She was more of a Mum to me than a Nan. We lived in each others pockets for 20 years
     
  5. carol2237

    carol2237 Guest

    Sam,

    I am sorry to hear that these upcoming days will be so difficult for you. I am here if you need to talk *huggles*

    Caroline
     
  6. *dilligaf*

    *dilligaf* Staff Alumni

    Thank you hun :hug:

    Just be ready for a few rants coming up I think :unsure:
     
  7. carol2237

    carol2237 Guest

    sounds good to me :)

    Caroline
     
  8. *dilligaf*

    *dilligaf* Staff Alumni

    9 months today :sad:

    im getting ready for my head to start the "what was happening 9 months ago right now?" thing that it always does on the anniversary :sad:
     
  9. carol2237

    carol2237 Guest

    *hugs sam* You can make it through the day. Try to remember the good times, not the end.

    Caroline
     
  10. *dilligaf*

    *dilligaf* Staff Alumni

    im sitting here looking at pictures of her.
    im another hour it will be the exact time :sad:
     
  11. gentlelady

    gentlelady Staff Alumni

    Firsts and anniversaries are never easy times. You may have moments that everything seems to hit at once. When this happens try to recall a happy memory of your times together. Celebrate her life, not her passing. She sounds like she was a wonderful woman. You are in my thoughts. :hug:
     
  12. *dilligaf*

    *dilligaf* Staff Alumni

    :hug: thank you Corrina, and you are right..she was a wonderful woman :smile: