Howdy all, A woman at my college keeps hanging around with me - she knows a lot of what I've been through and still hangs around. When ever we are together she tells me that I'm awesome - I tell her she is beautiful and sweet. She's invited me to stay with her in her bed when she's been ill so that I could take care of her. She likes me to keep her company whenever shes around (even if it's just me and her in her room, just lying around talking about life). She pays much less attention to other men at my school (the men outnumber women by 5 to 1 at my school). She always expresses sadness at not being able to find a good guy (a guy like me she tells me) - she commiserates with me on not being able to find someone with a kind heart and understanding and talks to me about her loneliness. We were going to go out - but the latest fling caught her eye and got in the way and then ended up breaking her heart (I saw it coming from a mile away). Now shes back to hanging out with me all the time telling me how much she adores me and respects me for all that I've been able to make it through and tells me she wishes a guy like me was in her (romantic) life. I find it very confusing - she says she wants a long term relationship with someone but acts as though she only wants to have fling after fling with men. She keeps saying she wants someone exactly like me - but she never says she wants me. Not sure if I should pursue - would sure be easier than going it alone - then again, could just lead to more heart break. Having trouble getting past all the flings she's been through - don't want to be just another John, Harry or Sam. Any advice on where to go with it?