been approached by another self harmer about your own habits? and if so what'd you say to them/whatd they say to you? this goes to the opposite too -- ever plucked up the courage to go up to another self harmer and tell them that you cut/burn/whatever too? i dunno, i'm just curious really. and i know of people who also harm themselves and well i feel kind of sorry for them because i KNOW that they're not as bad as me in that it's not as severe, yet, and they havent been doing it for as long -- yet. but yeah. but never told them otherwise.