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Discussion in 'Domestic Abuse' started by Erebos, Apr 30, 2007.

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  1. Erebos

    Erebos Well-Known Member

    Just out of curiosity, I suppose. Have you ever seen your parents kiss? Have you ever heard them say "I love you" to one another?
     
  2. LittleSparkles13

    LittleSparkles13 Well-Known Member

    I've seen them kiss that's about it.
     
  3. ~Nobody~

    ~Nobody~ Well-Known Member

    When you say my 'parents' ?

    I have not seen my mum and my biological father kiss as I haven't really seen him at all since I was about 6 months old.

    I have seen my mum and the guy I call 'dad' kiss. (He was with my mum from when I was 2 until I was 11) I don't remember ever hearing them say 'I love you' though.

    I have seen kisses, heard I love yous, and far worse in terms of all three men she's been with since she broke up with my dad.

    Why do you ask?
     
  4. thedeafmusician

    thedeafmusician Staff Alumni

    No, and no. Not that I can remember of, anyway. Then again, my parents aren't really what you'd consider as normal and sane. Why do you ask?

    TDM
     
  5. Allo..

    Allo.. Well-Known Member

    Yeah =] I have =]
     
  6. lostandlonely

    lostandlonely New Member

    No I haven't. My parents don't eachother anymore... I don't know why they don't just get a divorce. It would be much less painful than living in an unhappy home full of arguments and hate.
     
  7. Erebos

    Erebos Well-Known Member

    I've seen and heard this from other parents, but not my own. It's just a question I've had for a long time. There truly must be more people (un)fortunate enough never to have witnessed this from their parents either.

    Where do you learn to love, if not from them? Television? Books? Then again, any remote physical displays of affection by them seems so fake, knowing that their true feelings towards one another is nothing but an irreparable scar.
     
  8. Jackson

    Jackson Guest

    Yeah, I remember at least one time I saw them kiss when I was really young, at my asking them to. Later, my dad and stepmom got a little too physical and open about their sex life. :blink:
     
  9. sylviah

    sylviah Member

    Yes, i have seen them kiss.
     
  10. Twisted Sweet Lies

    Twisted Sweet Lies Well-Known Member

  11. Esmeralda

    Esmeralda Well-Known Member

    Yes, often; before my Dad died.
     
  12. Tara

    Tara Guest

    nope. well, my mum and dad havent been together since i as 5/6. I didnt see her kiss my stepdad (sisters dad...she was with him when i was 7-10/11) shes had many bfs and now is engaged (though he doesnt live with us) and ive not seen them kiss or say i love you.
    Although you can see they are in love, they are affectionate with each other, but i guess they think its pretty gross kissing an fondling in front of the kids lol.
     
  13. underdosed

    underdosed Guest

    i guess probably, but they divorced recently so not lately or in the past years
     
  14. SeemsPerfect

    SeemsPerfect Guest

    Nope. But I saw my grandparents do both at their 50th anniversary wedding/celebration.

    One of the many reasons I want to have a relationship like my grandparents and not my parents.
     
  15. Darken

    Darken Well-Known Member

    nerp.
     
  16. Syd

    Syd Guest

    I've accidentally seen them doing more than that, unfortunately.

    There are locks on doors for reasons.

    8 yr. old kids are one reason.
     
  17. ~Nobody~

    ~Nobody~ Well-Known Member

    *shudders* been there, done that. With my mum and three different men. How horrible :blink:
     
  18. jonstark

    jonstark Well-Known Member

    Never seen them even kiss.

    I think this has had a negative effect on me. I think this is one reason I don't really know what to do with women. I haven't a clear idea what love is. I know what lust is. I keep wondering if love is any different from lust.
     
  19. DaGame

    DaGame Member

    I've seen them kiss a long long long time ago and thats about it
     
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