he broke up with me

[SmilePretty]

god fucking betrayed me

my boyfriend broke up with me because he said that god told him to...which i believe

i just with it was justified and it wasnt against his will.

i just want to go and die.

i havent felt like this in a long time.

:sad:

 

[~PinkElephants~]

lucy
honey I'm so sorry about what's happening. :hug: im on msn if you need to talk

 

[Blackness]

If you believe in God, why dont you have hope in him to get you past this. a breakup is not the end of the world, although it sure feels like it!

 

[SmilePretty]

i am praying to god to get me past this
but god is the one who suggested it.

 

[Blackness]

why would God have wanted you to break up?

 

[SmilePretty]

he told me that god said "he shouldnt be with anyone"

 

[immure]

some people shouldn t

 

[Dave_N]

god fucking betrayed me

my boyfriend broke up with me because he said that god told him to...which i believe

Hi SmilePretty. Your boyfriend may have just said that God told him to break up with you as an excuse for breaking up with you? Maybe he couldn't come up with a real excuse so just said that? Don't lose faith in God. God still loves you and wants what's best for you. Don't give up hope.

 

[SmilePretty]

my boyfriend didnt want to break up with me

i can read him like a book
he sounded devestated...he sounded like he had no choice.



i know that god still loves me, i just feel like he double crossed me in a way...

 

[Aquariamethystea]

God doesn't tell people to break up. I hope you recover from the breakup, though don't blame God for it. People shouldn't use God as a reason for bad things happening.

 

[Terry]

Lucy, I get the feeling your boyfriend is in a bad place at the moment and maybe hearing messages that are actually from his subconcious:unsure: perhaps his "message from God" is him not letting himself have anything good or that makes him happy?

Don't do anything for a while and then see how he is in a few days/weeks, could be he is having some kind of breakdown. :hug:

 

[SmilePretty]

i hope he gets past this.

 

[Broken Dream]

People shouldn't use God as a reason for bad things happening.

No more than they should for good things happening. The door swings both ways.

 

[poison]

Lucy, I get the feeling your boyfriend is in a bad place at the moment and maybe hearing messages that are actually from his subconcious:unsure: perhaps his "message from God" is him not letting himself have anything good or that makes him happy?

Don't do anything for a while and then see how he is in a few days/weeks, could be he is having some kind of breakdown. :hug:

exactly what i was thinking. give it some time, though breakups are devestating. i could't imagine losing my g/f, i'm so close to her its unbelievable.

No more than they should for good things happening. The door swings both ways.

although i agree with that statement, it's besides the point.

 

[Aquariamethystea]

No more than they should for good things happening. The door swings both ways.

I agree with you, Broken Dream. Personally, I believe in God, though I don't believe that God does anything with the world anymore. It is society's world in which individuals either make their own decisions or get forced upon by society.

 

[SadDude87]

Wow. I don't mean to be insensitive but the excuse this guy has used is almost comical. 'God' told him to do it? Come on. Worst excuse ever.

I am really sorry it didn't work out, and although I know very little about the complexities of your situation it sounds like you are better off without this guy anyway. If you have managed to find somebody in the first place, I am sure you will find another you love and loves you back ...

 

[Dave_N]

Maybe a negative spirit told your boyfriend to break up with you and was impersonating God as well? They can be pesky buggers you know.

 

[SmilePretty]

it wasnt a fake excuse, i could hear it in his voice. it was so hard for him to say it...like he had to force himself.


:unsure:
and lets not have this turn into a religious debate.

 

[Veclord]

He wanted out of the relationship, and he's too much of a coward to tell you the real reason why so he said God told him to. People murder others, themselves, physically abuse their pets and molest their kids, and when asked for a logical explanation they cop out by saying God said to do it. Everyone has accidents and people will always make mistakes. But when it all boils down everyone makes their own conscious decision to do right or wrong.

He either felt that you were just clingy and wants space, or he's seeing someone else altogether and isn't telling you. Either way, you'll save yourself so much pain and heartache if you let him go and give yourself time to recover from the hurt he's put you through. Once you get past that point, get yourself out there and make yourself available to a man that genuinely loves you for being you...so much so that he'd never even dream of pushing you away or abandoning you in the cold like this one did.

 

[SmilePretty]

too bad you dont know him and neither of those opinions are true. nothing happened to make him want to break up with me. if anything, i have reasons to break up with him.