he broke up with me

Discussion in 'Help Me! I Need to Talk to Someone.' started by SmilePretty, Jan 13, 2008.

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  1. SmilePretty

    SmilePretty Staff Alumni

    god fucking betrayed me

    my boyfriend broke up with me because he said that god told him to...which i believe

    i just with it was justified and it wasnt against his will.

    i just want to go and die.

    i havent felt like this in a long time.

  2. ~PinkElephants~

    ~PinkElephants~ Senior member

    :( honey I'm so sorry about what's happening. :hug: im on msn if you need to talk
  3. Blackness

    Blackness Guest

    If you believe in God, why dont you have hope in him to get you past this. a breakup is not the end of the world, although it sure feels like it!
  4. SmilePretty

    SmilePretty Staff Alumni

    i am praying to god to get me past this
    but god is the one who suggested it.
  5. Blackness

    Blackness Guest

    why would God have wanted you to break up?
  6. SmilePretty

    SmilePretty Staff Alumni

    he told me that god said "he shouldnt be with anyone"
  7. immure

    immure Account Closed

    some people shouldn t
  8. Dave_N

    Dave_N Guest

    Hi SmilePretty. Your boyfriend may have just said that God told him to break up with you as an excuse for breaking up with you? Maybe he couldn't come up with a real excuse so just said that? Don't lose faith in God. God still loves you and wants what's best for you. Don't give up hope.
  9. SmilePretty

    SmilePretty Staff Alumni

    my boyfriend didnt want to break up with me

    i can read him like a book
    he sounded devestated...he sounded like he had no choice.

    i know that god still loves me, i just feel like he double crossed me in a way...
  10. God doesn't tell people to break up. I hope you recover from the breakup, though don't blame God for it. People shouldn't use God as a reason for bad things happening.
  11. Terry

    Terry Antiquities Friend Staff Alumni

    Lucy, I get the feeling your boyfriend is in a bad place at the moment and maybe hearing messages that are actually from his subconcious:unsure: perhaps his "message from God" is him not letting himself have anything good or that makes him happy?

    Don't do anything for a while and then see how he is in a few days/weeks, could be he is having some kind of breakdown. :hug:
  12. SmilePretty

    SmilePretty Staff Alumni

    i hope he gets past this.
  13. Broken Dream

    Broken Dream Member

    No more than they should for good things happening. The door swings both ways.
  14. poison

    poison Well-Known Member

    exactly what i was thinking. give it some time, though breakups are devestating. i could't imagine losing my g/f, i'm so close to her its unbelievable.

    although i agree with that statement, it's besides the point.

  15. I agree with you, Broken Dream. Personally, I believe in God, though I don't believe that God does anything with the world anymore. It is society's world in which individuals either make their own decisions or get forced upon by society.
  16. SadDude87

    SadDude87 Well-Known Member

    Wow. I don't mean to be insensitive but the excuse this guy has used is almost comical. 'God' told him to do it? Come on. Worst excuse ever.

    I am really sorry it didn't work out, and although I know very little about the complexities of your situation it sounds like you are better off without this guy anyway. If you have managed to find somebody in the first place, I am sure you will find another you love and loves you back ...
  17. Dave_N

    Dave_N Guest

    Maybe a negative spirit told your boyfriend to break up with you and was impersonating God as well? They can be pesky buggers you know.
  18. SmilePretty

    SmilePretty Staff Alumni

    it wasnt a fake excuse, i could hear it in his voice. it was so hard for him to say it...like he had to force himself.

    and lets not have this turn into a religious debate.
  19. Veclord

    Veclord Active Member

    He wanted out of the relationship, and he's too much of a coward to tell you the real reason why so he said God told him to. People murder others, themselves, physically abuse their pets and molest their kids, and when asked for a logical explanation they cop out by saying God said to do it. Everyone has accidents and people will always make mistakes. But when it all boils down everyone makes their own conscious decision to do right or wrong.

    He either felt that you were just clingy and wants space, or he's seeing someone else altogether and isn't telling you. Either way, you'll save yourself so much pain and heartache if you let him go and give yourself time to recover from the hurt he's put you through. Once you get past that point, get yourself out there and make yourself available to a man that genuinely loves you for being you...so much so that he'd never even dream of pushing you away or abandoning you in the cold like this one did.
  20. SmilePretty

    SmilePretty Staff Alumni

    too bad you dont know him and neither of those opinions are true. nothing happened to make him want to break up with me. if anything, i have reasons to break up with him.
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