He doesn't love me anymore

Discussion in 'Family, Friends and Relationships' started by GirlInNeed, May 18, 2015.

  1. GirlInNeed

    GirlInNeed New Member

    :( how can a person be insanely in love with you 1 month ago and now I'm travelling he suddenly doesn't care anymore
     
  2. GreySilence

    GreySilence Well-Known Member

    His "love" might've been shallow. He doesn't sound like a very loving person, to be honest- especially because of the way he would change his mind about you for a reason like "you're going travelling". It might hurt a lot, but try to look on the bright side; If the relationship went on longer, then it would hurt even more. It's fortunate that you learned of his true nature now and not later down the road, no?
     
  3. Prinnctopher's Belt

    Prinnctopher's Belt Antiquities Friend SF Supporter

    What happened between a month ago and now other than "now Im traveling"?

    But usually breakaways happen because either person, or both people,

    1) found someone else;
    2) lost interest, which usually precedes1); and
    3) didn't actually love you anyway.

    The illusion of love feels good, and hurts just as if it were real when it's taken away. But be relieved the illusion is gone, after all, illusions aren't real.

    Let yourself cry and do whatever have to do to get back to living. Theres always someone to share real love.
     
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