Eh, I don't know what to do. My boyfriend lives in England but now he's talking about moving down here to Wales to be with me and I don't know if I want that, but I don't know how to tell him. Things have been strained recently. He's going through a difficult patch right now and as a result has gone back on the antidepressants, if I leave him it will feel like I'm abandoning him. He literally saved my life back last year and we liked each other a lot and I've been telling him I love him and I thought I meant it but now I don't know. I mean, I thought I did, and maybe I did but things have changed and now I'm feeling really uncomfortable. It's going too fast for my liking. I told him the other day maybe it's best for him to stay around where he is, to get better, then move here. I also said what if things don't work out if he moves here? He will be alone, away from family etc and I don't want that to happen. I tried to tell him a few months ago but he said he wants "all or nothing". I tried to suggest we stay friends or calm things down but he sulked and he hanged the phone up on me. I now realise I can't be in a relationship like this, I can't handle it if he moves to be closer to me. If I'm to break up with him, he's told me he will break contact off with me totally. We can't be friends or anything. Why did I get myself into this situation?! I don't want to lose him as a friend, but if I end things, that's what will happen. I'm also worried he will attempt suicide because he has told me he wouldn't see a point to life if I wasn't there. I really don't know what to do. Too much pressure and I don't know what way to go about it. Any suggestions or advice is appreciated.