I just found out it is time to do my Nan's headstone. My Mum says she hasn't told the rest of the family cos I was "Nan's number 1" and she knows I would want to do the wording and that. So now she wants me to do the wording, I don't know what to say, how do you describe such a wonderful, generous, loved, missed person in such a few words? Then we go and look at surrounds and stuff and decide what we want it to look like. Usually when I am home (and not at Vikki's) I go to see my Nan quite a bit. Now I am moving in with Vikki...and I'm so pleased about that...but there's one thing that's tearing me apart....I am going to be so far away from the grave. I know you don't need to go to a cemetery to remember someone you loved, but *I* am the one who keeps it looking good. I can't bear the thought of it being ignored, and her not being visited.