hi there, i'm a 25 year old guy from the Netherlands, and i have a problem... Well actually its not my problem, but my (ex)girlfriends. She tried to kill herself several times. We broke up recently, and she tried again... We talked about it alot, and i know she really wants it. I've been thinking about it and came to the conclusion that whatever choises she makes, i'll stand by her side... Even though it hurts alot. But i realise that she's the one being hurt. So it would be selfish to try to stop her from doing it. Like i said, we broke up recently, but we love eachother very much. And i promised myself and her, to stay by her side... whatever happens. Maybe we can work things out, i'm not sure... But for now... I would like to help her, no matter what it will cost me. I know this forum, might not be the right place to go to, cause most of you have your own problems, but i wanted to talk with people who might understand, and are experienced with this. I can't talk about this with friends, not that im ashamed. Is there more i can do, except talking and offering her a shoulder to cry on? I really love this girl, and i will respect and accept every choise she'll make. But i just want to make things easier for her, i just dont know how or what to do at the moment. There is just one thing i won't do... That's run away for this. I hope someone can give me advise about this... I wish everybody all the best, and if there is anyone who needs a friend just to talk... You can always add me to msn.. firstname.lastname@example.org Thank you... One love, and respect to all.