hello. i am new to the forum and i am not sure if this is the correct place to post but i suppose i'll start and if you want to direct me elsewhere that's okay, i'll totally repost or retype.
i'm 25, and feeling like my life is over. i am high functioning, with a job for all appearances sake should be the dream, i have a large social circle, and a family who is close by. i've worked tirelessly for 10 years to get where i am, and i feel nothing but heartache. gym, career building, parties, networking events, vitamins, better diet, what to wear, forcing myself through friendships, boyfriends and social interactions that drain every ounce of my being. everyone says that i'm beautiful and smart and talented and a "rising star" within my company and i don't see how ANY of those things are true. i am lonely. i have no one in my life who accepts me for who i really am, which is introverted, ridiculously deep, too nerdy for the way i look, and not very happy. i feel like i have to be perfect constantly, and really i don't even know why. i like myself and i've never understood why people don't like me. i'm successful and funny and i try so. f-ing. hard. and i'm never good enough. no one sees me. no conversations are real. and i feel like i'm working so hard and becoming exhausted from just trying to keep myself alive. i've been suicidal since highschool but i had hope about the future that independence and adulthood would bring. now i have everything i've worked for and i'm taking a breath to realize i'm barely alive, and i can't even tell if i exist. my suicidal thoughts & planning have increased to every other day. i don't know why i was born.
anyway. so dark-- and heavy and i hate talking about it because it makes me vulnerable and that i am not in control. but i want to live. i am willing to live... that's what scares me the most. is that i am trying so hard.. and i am failing at even convincing myself to keep going.
sorry... thanks for reading.
xx M
i'm 25, and feeling like my life is over. i am high functioning, with a job for all appearances sake should be the dream, i have a large social circle, and a family who is close by. i've worked tirelessly for 10 years to get where i am, and i feel nothing but heartache. gym, career building, parties, networking events, vitamins, better diet, what to wear, forcing myself through friendships, boyfriends and social interactions that drain every ounce of my being. everyone says that i'm beautiful and smart and talented and a "rising star" within my company and i don't see how ANY of those things are true. i am lonely. i have no one in my life who accepts me for who i really am, which is introverted, ridiculously deep, too nerdy for the way i look, and not very happy. i feel like i have to be perfect constantly, and really i don't even know why. i like myself and i've never understood why people don't like me. i'm successful and funny and i try so. f-ing. hard. and i'm never good enough. no one sees me. no conversations are real. and i feel like i'm working so hard and becoming exhausted from just trying to keep myself alive. i've been suicidal since highschool but i had hope about the future that independence and adulthood would bring. now i have everything i've worked for and i'm taking a breath to realize i'm barely alive, and i can't even tell if i exist. my suicidal thoughts & planning have increased to every other day. i don't know why i was born.
anyway. so dark-- and heavy and i hate talking about it because it makes me vulnerable and that i am not in control. but i want to live. i am willing to live... that's what scares me the most. is that i am trying so hard.. and i am failing at even convincing myself to keep going.
sorry... thanks for reading.
xx M