It really hurts when you have to resort to an internet forum for help, but that is exactly what I am doing. I posted an article explaining my situation but it has to be OK'd by the moderators so I will wait for that to happen but right now I feel like I am at the end of my rope, I feel like my husband has abandoned me and taken my daughters side and I just feel so lost. I always thought a husband & wife were a team, were together, were a pair, yet he sides with her on the pics she posted on facebook of herself, head tilted back and she is pouring a shot in her mouth. Sorry, but I was embarrassed, shoot me for it. She could have put up a more tasteful pic, perhaps of her & her bf toasting a shot to each other, I'm really sorry but I was embarrassed.