Discussion in 'Welcome' started by Johanes, Sep 19, 2015.

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  1. Johanes

    Johanes New Member

    Hello, I'm new here, I'm not sure how to start. My partner finished our relationship last month, I've been out of work for 2 years. I've been searching and trying for work. I miss my love, she was everything. I just feel that I am lost. Lost the battle. I know it sounds selfish against other people's issues.
  2. JmpMster

    JmpMster Have a question? Message Me Staff Member Forum Owner ADMIN

    It is really hard when are alone after a long relationship. Add in trying to find decent employment and find a sense of worth and reason to be around I understand why you would be down. Is a very familiar situation to many and I am very sorry have found yourself in it. I hope you spend some time here to get some support and perspective while trying to work through this period.

    Welcome to SF , I am glad you found us.
  3. Jabez

    Jabez Well-Known Member

    Welcome, Johanes
    I'm sorry you are feeling lost and so sad.
    Please don't feel like your problems aren't as important as other people's. It's not the problem that matters but how you are coping with it - and so if you are struggling you deserve support and a space to talk as much as anyone else here.
    Hope you find lots of support here - I'm sure you will, it's a very friendly site :)
  4. Petal

    Petal SF dreamer Staff Member Safety & Support SF Supporter

    Hi Johanes and welcome to the forum, I am sorry you struggling so much and hope we can help lessen your pain. Talk about it and keep talking, it might help :)
  5. total eclipse

    total eclipse SF Friend Staff Alumni

    Glad to see you reaching out here Johanes you are NOT alone now ok keep reaching out to us here talk in chat hold out here for awhile it helps to know you do not have to fight the sadness alone
  6. Cicada 3301

    Cicada 3301 Staff Alumni SF Supporter

    Hi Johanes, welcome to SF! I hope you can find some support and friendship here :)
  7. Johanes

    Johanes New Member

    Thank you all, your kindness please do believe me there are tears in my eyes as I write this
    it just falls apart so quickly, work, been temping to keep things for us, lost my grandmother in August and then the breakup. Try so hard to protect what mattered, she always came first.
    Just feel so heavy in my heart and in my stomache.
  8. WildCherry

    WildCherry Staff Member ADMIN

    Hi and welcome. What you posted doesn't sound selfish at all; I hope you find some support here.
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