3 days ago, I met a girl online who i hit it off with. we talked for a while. She lives in another state far away. I am 24, she's 21. She told me about her failed engadgement she is in, and how she is going to leave him as soon as she gets some money together to get her own place and get out of his house. We hit it off good, and starting flirting that night. We ended up having phone sex. The next day, I felt somewhat guilty. I realized that even though she knew it was over between her and her fiance, maybe he hadn't fully accepted it, and it probably wouldn't be right for me to continue to talk to her. So last night i found her in chat, and told her how i felt about the situation. I was nice about it. Within a couple of minutes she got extremely defensive and starting talking about how suicidal she is. I asked her why she's suicidal. She said because no one loves her. I ended up calling her because i was so worried, and she was in a horrible state of mind, like a different person. I suggested she call her fiance, she said she just did, but that he didn't believe her and said she was exaggerating. And he wouldn't be home until the next day because hes a paramedic. I told her to call her parents. She said they won't believe her, because her mom already had her committed to a psych ward a while back for two weeks. She was in a completely depresssed state of mind and i could not help her to see anything positive. She was completely pissed at me and said i had used her. She was mad at the world, mad becuase her best friend wasn't talking to her either. She ended up hanging up on me. I debated for hours last night if I should call 911 and give them her phone number. But something was telling me not to get anymore involved or to say or do anything else that could agitate her. The thing is, I don't know her, I barely talked to her 2 nights before. For all i know she might not even be who says she is, might not be 21, might not even be suicidal. I was worried that she could just be mad at me for ending the little phone affair and made up the suicidial act to lay a major guilt trip on me. I just felt deep down that if she's this unstable, what might she do if I call the police. (Deny that she's suicidal so i look like a prankster? or worse yet, tell them i'm harrassing her or something?) But also deep down, I kinda feel I shoulda called 911......i just don't know, I'm so torn. I feel like she could be manipulating me, but I also feel like she could be for real. Any thoughts?