help me please.

Discussion in 'Family, Friends and Relationships' started by justalostsoul, Aug 24, 2014.

  1. justalostsoul

    justalostsoul New Member

    I have a fabulous boyfriend, and I love him, but I think I might have a crush on my best friend (a girl) and I don't know what to do.
     
  2. Unknown_111

    Unknown_111 Forum Buddy Staff Alumni SF Supporter

    Hi welcome to the forum. Please do not worry about your current crisis. I think you need to speak to a specialist helpline who can help you the way your feel if anything is available in your country of origin. It might be worth writing your feelings down. The issue is that does your best friend have the same feelings or if you open up to her, will she freak out or accept it. I think you need to consider this before doing anything. It might be a crush that you can overcome but deep down you really care for your best friends. I think you need to leave it as you could lose your boyfriend and best friend at the same time which would really hurt. I think you need to cherish the friendship of both parties. Simply the best of both worlds and you will be happy with that. I hope this makes sense and please do not fret now.
     
  3. Cooki

    Cooki Well-Known Member

    Like incrisis said I think you shouldn't do anything now because you could loose the both of them.