Help me please

Discussion in 'Help Me! I Need to Talk to Someone.' started by P.J, Sep 17, 2016.

  1. P.J

    P.J Active Member

    I cannt do this anyonmore!! There i said it ok! I am strugging! I cant do this anymoreeeeeeee! pretending to the worlxfd that I am ok when reallyy I am not! I hate ghis and I hate my life, they do not accept that I am not ok! They tell me to pretent tht nothing has happened when really they have killed me inside! I am just beyond hwlp! Sorry but i really am!
     
  2. P.J

    P.J Active Member

    anyone?
     
  3. P.J

    P.J Active Member

    pleaaaaseeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee :(
     
  4. P.J

    P.J Active Member

    tht s ok. im alone and alwys ahave beeen. keep strong everyone. you are all worhth it. you all mean something to someone so keep strong. if nnt for you then for me, thanks SF!!!
     
  5. ashleyneedshope29

    ashleyneedshope29 Active Member

    PJ I know what your going through ive always had to put on a smile and pretend that everything was great when i just wanted to die inside. If you ever need somebody to talk to im here.
     
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  6. DadzTruk

    DadzTruk Member

    PJ,

    Nothing wrong with admitting that you are struggling. We all put on masks and pretend at times. It seems to be what society expects. I'm sorry you are having a rough time, but no one is beyond help and no situation is hopeless. Find a professional counselor to talk to so that you can work through whatever it is. I'm not discounting how you feel because I've been there, but life can get better. Just let someone help you navigate through this. Praying that hope is restored in your life.
     
  7. Petal

    Petal SF dreamer Staff Alumni SF Supporter

    Hi @P.J and welcome to SF. I agree with the above poster that no one is beyond help. You are here for a reason.
    Care to tell us more about yourself? Please do because we care and would like to help you if you allow us to. Good luck.
     
  8. P.J

    P.J Active Member

    Thank you! I'm sorry you feel this way too :(
     
  9. P.J

    P.J Active Member

    Thank you Dadztruk, I hope so too. I have spoken to a counsellor a couple of times before but I had to stop as some people found out and weren't too happy. So atm I'm just hoping sf will help me through for now ☺️
     
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  10. P.J

    P.J Active Member

    Hi @Petal thank you for the warm welcome. Erm may be in time I can say more, just that I'm a student and sf is what I'm hoping will help me through :)
     
  11. SillyOldBear

    SillyOldBear Teddy Bear Fanatic Staff Member Safety & Support

    A student. That is terrific. What are you studying?
     
  12. P.J

    P.J Active Member

    @SillyOldBear I'm going to study marketing
     
  13. SillyOldBear

    SillyOldBear Teddy Bear Fanatic Staff Member Safety & Support

    Fantastic! There is definitely a need for talented people who can market quality products.
     
  14. P.J

    P.J Active Member

    @SillyOldBear I don't think there is. Not me anyway - it was an interest before but I doubt I'll get far. Never mind though, it's okay :)
     
  15. SillyOldBear

    SillyOldBear Teddy Bear Fanatic Staff Member Safety & Support

    Its definitely NOT okay that you feel this bad. It seems like your self-confidence has been pretty much beaten down. It definitely needs building up. What kind of things do you like to do, or what did you like to do in the past.
     
  16. Free@Last

    Free@Last Active Member

    When you study marketing you will learn the 4 p's. Treat yourself as the BEST Product ever. Price or value yourself highly.Place yourself where you feel right and at ease.
    Promote your skills by growing in confidence.
     
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  17. P.J

    P.J Active Member

    @SillyOldBear .. Maybe but it is okay, I just really don't think it can be built back up. I did like dancing, drawing and making people laugh.

    Thanks @Free@Last for the tips, I will keep this in mind.
     
  18. DadzTruk

    DadzTruk Member

    I don't know your full situation, but I would not stop seeing a counselor just because someone was unhappy. This is about YOUR life and YOUR wellbeing. Whoever was unhappy about it, needs to be more concerned about your wellbeing than their temporary happiness. Praying for you my friend.
     
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  19. SillyOldBear

    SillyOldBear Teddy Bear Fanatic Staff Member Safety & Support

    DadzTruk is so very right. Right now you need to take care of yourself, put yourself first. You are the most important person in your world. And you need to do all you can to heal.
     
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  20. P.J

    P.J Active Member

    @DadzTruk @SillyOldBear ..it's difficult, I don't really have a choice - I can't be the priority. It's probably hard to understand what I mean as I haven't really told my story, but I appreciate you both caring. Don't worry though.