Help Me

Discussion in 'Suicidal Thoughts and Feelings' started by Henri, Aug 30, 2010.

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  1. Henri

    Henri Member

    I cant die, because my children need me. Someone talk me out of doing what divorced men are at high risk for. I want to be free but not using death as a means. Is there any other way out? Im crying out.
     
  2. Uze

    Uze Member

    There are lots of ways to channel your emotions. Do something you enjoy, try and spend time with your kids or something D; Im sorry I can't be much help, I don't really understand regular human emotions
     
  3. Hope this reaches you in time.

    I'm also a man and gone through hell.

    my email is <mod edit - Robin - You are more than welcome to pm your email address, but bear in mind your email address can be not only indexed by google and point to your posts here but also spam bots looking to shift cheap viagra etc etc>
     
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  4. WildCherry

    WildCherry Staff Member ADMIN

    I don't know your whole situation, but I do know your kids need you. I hope you'll come back here and talk to us; you can PM me if you need to talk.
     
  5. total eclipse

    total eclipse SF Friend Staff Alumni

    This pain you are feeling is only temperary okay it will decrease it will go away. In time you will look back and be grateful you held on because you will have your children who will love you unconditionally you will perhaps meet up with someone new who will love you better You deserve that right. Hold on okay i promise you the pain will go will lessen just stay here and vent talk and release the pain here okay Hold on for you and your children
     
  6. flowingriver

    flowingriver Well-Known Member

    Henri, you have been strong this far. You can hold on another day. I am very sorry for what you have been through. I feel for you. Your kids need you and your suicide will affect them. A wounded father is better than no father. Life can be unfair. But dying is not the solution here. It is better to chose life. In time, good things will happen, and a year from now things will probably be much better, and the feelings would have lessened.

    "Take it day by day. Find as much support as you can. Never ever sit around alone. Find someone, do something." These are your own words on another thread to someone. I suggest that you do the same for you, hun.

    Life is hurting right now, and you are experiencing the worse pain known on earth, but, you will get through this. You don't want to give this pain to your children by committing suicide.

    Give them the gift of health.
     
  7. Henri

    Henri Member

    So often we fail to follow our own advice. I am no expection. I never would have thought I'd would be going through this. I see no end in sight. The light at the end of the tunnel is too far away. That doesn't mean it doesn't exist. I just hope I can survive to get there.
     
  8. IV2010

    IV2010 Well-Known Member

    Henri please hold on....that feeling will pass....I have been there myself..I understand how consuming it is but keep fighting ok.
    You are grieving for a lost marriage and that takes time but you can get through it....
    My ex threatened suicide when we seperated but he is still here 16 years later and has had a few new partners and is happily in a long term relationship..
    There is hope ...
    have you thought of joining a mens support group? are there any in your area?
    Therapy also might help with the grief..

    And your children need you to stay for them....

    We are here to help as much as we can...take care
     
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