My boyfriend is angry at me because I am afraid he will leave me. I don't know what to do because I can't change my feelings, everything that's happening in our relationship is exactly the same as my last one and that ended horribly. Things were going great and Monday night he said it was ok for me to depend on him and I could talk to him anytime I needed, I opened up and felt really, truly safe with him for the first time in my life. It was beautiful. He said it didn't stress him out. He said he was happy about it. I warned him I am depressed a lot and he'll get tired. He said its not too much. And now yesterday he came over and said that he needs to take care of himself and take a break from the stress of it all (me and my problems). That he needs space and I can't depend on him. That he can't deal with me being depressed "all the time" and stay healthy. It was a sudden turn around with nothing going on in between the two days to influence his decision other than his own thoughts, and he contradicted himself... and I just went into panic because its a familiar situation that happened with my ex. How do I trust someone who is constantly wavering from one feeling to another? So now he's angry at me because I'm afraid to trust him and afraid for our relationship. I don't know how to handle this at all, someone please please help. In my last relationship I trusted my ex's every word despite all the contradictions, I worked with whatever he said, and I continued to reach out to him anyway and take his support when he offered it. So I feel like I can't do that this time. I have a plan of how to handle this but its probably horribly horribly wrong. What can I do please someone help I don't know how to handle this and I feel like if I mess up this relationship my life will be in ruins.