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Discussion in 'Suicidal Thoughts and Feelings' started by shoekstra1419, Sep 15, 2008.

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  1. shoekstra1419

    shoekstra1419 Member

    ive been wanting to die since i was 7..bc i have a horrible abusive dad. i am clueless as to what i have to live for
     
  2. aki

    aki Well-Known Member

    how old are you? I'm really sorry you're going through this.
     
  3. mortdesinos

    mortdesinos Well-Known Member

    Welcome, shoekstra! I hope you find this place helpful.

    What happened that caused you to come here? Have you been able to separate from your father? Do you realize that what he did to you was due to his own problems and not your fault?
     
  4. Chernarus

    Chernarus Well-Known Member

    i have no reason to live but i will play the hypocrite set some future goal or dream about how it will be when your 18 and gone out in the world, abuse is a temporary event but you have your hole life ahead of you so a couple of years of abuse but you will get threw it or you can reach out for help but when i was abused nobody believed me so i endured it, so if i got threw it you can and believe me i have had my share of abuse im not just playing the devils advocate or what not.
     
  5. shoekstra1419

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  6. aki

    aki Well-Known Member

    Maybe you could tell someone, like social services or a teacher or something. They could help you out and make sure you're safe. Please don't kill yourself, like one of the other posters said, you'll be able to get away from him in a few years and do whatever you want to do.
     
  7. Chernarus

    Chernarus Well-Known Member

    if there like anything in my state they just ask the parent if she/he is abusing the child then after that ya get beat harder than ever
     
  8. shoekstra1419

    shoekstra1419 Member

    i dont think i can wait a few years and i couldnt put my own dad in jail no matter how much i hate him.
     
  9. shoekstra1419

    shoekstra1419 Member

    i have bruises all over from him. i have to make up excuses
     
  10. aki

    aki Well-Known Member

    wtf that's not true....this kid is 13 years old and is suicidal from abuse, he needs help. Don't scare him into silence :mad: If they think a child is in danger, they will help.
     
  11. aki

    aki Well-Known Member

    You poor thing :( Is there anyone you could talk to shoekstra?
     
  12. Chernarus

    Chernarus Well-Known Member

    you were playing backyard football. you were wrestling with your friends, you fell, got hit by a ball, you were playing dodge ball with baseballs, you were messing around with your friends
     
  13. Chernarus

    Chernarus Well-Known Member

    they sure as hell didn't help me when i had bruises on the face and body in my state they only believe the parents. My parents were good liars im just telling the kid what to expect if they don't help. My state is the great state of Colorado.
     
  14. shoekstra1419

    shoekstra1419 Member

    i just have my best friend to talk to
     
  15. aki

    aki Well-Known Member

    It's not good to keep something like this silent...he obviously can't cope anymore, he needs some help. It's incredibly difficult to keep it all inside and try and cope alone.
     
  16. Chernarus

    Chernarus Well-Known Member

    what state are you in shoe
     
  17. aki

    aki Well-Known Member

    That's good :hug: Do they know about your Dad and how you feel?
     
  18. aki

    aki Well-Known Member

    It's not like that everywhere. I'm really sorry that happened to you though.
     
  19. shoekstra1419

    shoekstra1419 Member

    yeah she has a similar problem
     
  20. aki

    aki Well-Known Member

    How would you feel about the two of you trying to get help somehow? are you a girl or a boy btw?
     
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