Help ?

Discussion in 'Rape and Abuse' started by Butterfly., Mar 14, 2009.

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  1. Butterfly.

    Butterfly. Guest

    I was raped just over a year ago, now I think every man is a pervert who wants to do that to girls. This was a big factor in a break up with someone I really loved. Any advice in changing my thoughts about men ? I don't want to be held back by what happened forever...

    (Hope this was the right place to post.)
  2. Scum

    Scum Well-Known Member

    It was the right place to post :)

    Welcome to the forum too.

    I'm sorry that you have gone through something so horrific. Have you had any professional help to help you work through what happened to you?
  3. Seabiscuit

    Seabiscuit Member

    Do you think tell the one you love what happened will be a good choice?
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  4. Stranger1

    Stranger1 Forum Buddy & Antiquities Friend

    Hey Butterfly, Welcome to the forum!! Un fortunately there are predators out thereand you can't always tell who they are. I agree with scum that you should talk with a therapist. Not all men are like that. I am sure in time you will come to beleive that. Therapy is the best solution!!
  5. wheresmysheep

    wheresmysheep Staff Alumni

    welcome to sf.
    the only things we can suggest, as we are just a peer to peer support, would be seek proffesional help for it, talk to the one you love about how difficult things are for you, and try to work with the proffesionals about getting through this.
    other wise we are here for the hard times :hug:
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