I know people on this site are looking for help, but how do we help someone who we know who is going through the same pain as we are? One of my closest friends has depression, but she refuses to get help. She doesn't think she deserves help and that she doesn't want to burden her family with her problems. When she tells me how she feels, I see myself in her. And I know how deep these feelings can go. How do you convince someone that they need to get help, and that they're worth it. She's just soooo stubborn. Should I just let her come to the realization that she needs help herself, or should I keep trying to help her?