HEREFORYOU has the right idea...

[Matty321]

I read this book a long time ago, The Magic of Thinking Big, I forget the author--it was all about the very subject HEREFORYOU mentions below.

Your mind does the work you tell it to. If you tell it to find 20 reasons a thing won't work out, well it does! Take the same problem and if you tell your mind to genuinely try to find solutions or positives to it, IT WILL.

The book talks, too, about "drain people," telling you not to hang with people who worsten things for you, either. The negative people in your life who don't feed your progress or growth or do anything good for you.

~Matty

 

[Hereforyou]

Haha thanks man for getting the message out. There is also this book called the secret. You guys should check it out, very interesting readind.

 

[mortdesinos]

That's a good point. Ironically, I've already been "drained." Now I understand it from a first person perspective.