Let's try this once more... Hey, I'm mel. Me, simply, hey you, whatever you choose to call, I usually answer. I didn't want to sign in and belong to yet another forum because I know how those go for me. I bounce between venting and being set off by other's posts. Maybe I just feed on the thought that I can actually say anything and people will see it without endangering any relationship I may have with them, who knows. I just wanted a moment and a space to make myself write again and have someone hear me. Ah well, if I'm crying out for attention must be because I actually feel the need for some, right? Hrm....info? 24 yo female, married (to a female ). Guess that's enough, anything else and you'll have to ask for yourself.