My name is Matt. My life has just gone in the crapper in the last few years. I quit my job a few years ago with the belief that I could just find another one quickly. Less than brilliant. I still haven't found a decent job. My teenage son blames me for the breakup between his mom and me. I'd like to tell him the truth, but since he lives with her 90% of the time, it seems like I should just suck it up. My 6 year old daughter is wonderful, though. I don't have any friends anymore. I don't have enough money to leave the house and actually do anything. I've gained a bunch of weight. I have to move next month and can't imagine how I'm going to find another place to live or how to afford it. I have a ton of debt. My credit is so bad, I can't even get a checking account. [Mod Edit-Methods], but then I feel guilty. But at the same time, I feel like I'm causing my kids a lot of pain by my being such a loser. I dunno.